I Am An Empath; I Am A Wounded Healer 

The wounded healer refers psychologically to the capacity

“to be at home in the darkness of suffering and to find germs of light and recovery with which, to bring forth-the sunlike healer.”

The archetype of the wounded healer reveals to us that it is only by being willing to face, consciously experience, and go through our wound do we receive its blessing.

To go through our wound is to embrace, assent, and say “yes” to the mysteriously painful new place in ourselves where the wound is leading us.”

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http://empathicperspectives.blogspot.no/search/label/Emotional%20Manipulator